Key takeaways: “Drowsy but awake” means putting your baby down when sleepy but still awake, so they can practice falling asleep in their crib. It’s commonly recommended, and behavioral sleep approaches that include it have research support for older babies. It often doesn’t work for young newborns, and it’s okay if your baby isn’t ready.
You’ve probably heard you should put your baby down “drowsy but awake.” Here’s what it means and how realistic it is.
What It Means
Your baby is calm and sleepy, eyes getting heavy, but still awake when placed in the crib or bassinet. The idea is that babies learn to fall asleep on their own and may resettle more easily during the night.
What the Evidence Says
Reviews of behavioral sleep approaches, such as those by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, have found that helping children learn to fall asleep independently can reduce bedtime problems and night wakings, mostly in babies over 6 months. Research specifically on “drowsy but awake” for young babies is limited.
From the author
From First Breath to First Birthday is my month-by-month guide to your baby’s first year, written as a NICU and postpartum nurse. My book covers sleep month by month, alongside feeding, growth and the warning signs that mean it’s time to call the doctor.
Newborns
Young babies often need help falling asleep through feeding, rocking, or holding. That’s normal. You can practice occasionally, but it’s okay if it doesn’t work yet.
How to Practice
- Follow a short routine.
- Watch for sleepy cues.
- Lay your baby down when eyes look heavy.
- Stay nearby and offer gentle touch, shushing, or a pacifier.
- If your baby gets upset, pick them up, soothe, and try again or help them to sleep.
- Try at the easiest time of day, often bedtime.
It’s Not All or Nothing
You can help your baby fall asleep at some times and practice independence at others.
Safe Sleep
Always place your baby on their back in their own safe sleep space.
The Bottom Line
“Drowsy but awake” can help some babies, especially as they get older. It’s a skill that develops with time, not a test you need to pass.
Want more support for your baby’s first year? My book, From First Breath to First Birthday, is available on Amazon.
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- How Much Should a Newborn Sleep? Sleep Needs Month by Month
Sources
- Mindell JA, Kuhn B, Lewin DS, Meltzer LJ, Sadeh A. Behavioral treatment of bedtime problems and night wakings in infants and young children. Sleep. 2006;29(10):1263-1276.
- American Academy of Pediatrics. Getting your baby to sleep. HealthyChildren.org. https://www.healthychildren.org
- Moon RY, Carlin RF, Hand I; Task Force on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome; Committee on Fetus and Newborn. Sleep-related infant deaths: updated 2022 recommendations for reducing infant deaths in the sleep environment. Pediatrics. 2022;150(1):e2022057990.
This article is for general education and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice. Always talk with your baby’s health care provider or your own provider about your specific situation. If you think your baby or you may have a medical emergency, call 911.
