Key takeaways: Rooming-in helps you learn your baby’s cues, supports breastfeeding, and builds confidence. You can still ask for help and rest. Keep your baby in the bassinet when you’re sleepy, and call your nurse anytime.
Many hospitals now encourage rooming-in, where healthy babies stay with their parents around the clock instead of in a central nursery.
Benefits
- Learning your baby’s cues: you’ll notice early hunger signs and respond quickly.
- Breastfeeding: rooming-in supports frequent feeding, which helps milk come in. It’s one of the Ten Steps to Successful Breastfeeding from the WHO and UNICEF Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative.
- Bonding and confidence: you’ll practice care with nurses nearby to help.
- Babies may cry less when close to parents.
From the author
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What If I Need Rest?
Rooming-in doesn’t mean you’re on your own. You can:
- Ask your nurse for help with feeding, diaper changes, and soothing.
- Have your partner or support person take a shift.
- Limit visitors so you can nap.
- Talk with your nurse if you’re exhausted. In some hospitals, a baby can be cared for nearby for a short time while you rest, especially after a difficult birth.
Safe Sleep in the Hospital
Exhaustion after birth is real, and falls and suffocation can happen in hospital beds.
- Put your baby in the bassinet, on their back, whenever you feel sleepy.
- Don’t fall asleep with your baby in the hospital bed or a chair.
- Ask your partner or nurse to move the baby if you’re drowsy.
- Use the call button anytime.
When Babies Need to Be Separated
Some babies need the nursery or NICU for medical care. If you’re separated:
- Ask to visit as soon as you can.
- Start hand expression or pumping within the first hours if you plan to breastfeed.
- Ask about skin-to-skin as soon as your baby is stable.
The Bottom Line
Rooming-in helps you and your baby get to know each other and supports breastfeeding. Use your nurses and partner for support, and always move your baby to the bassinet when you feel sleepy.
Want more support for your baby’s first year? My book, From First Breath to First Birthday, is available on Amazon.
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- Writing Newborn Care Preferences Into Your Birth Plan
- Your Newborn’s First 24 Hours: What Happens in the Hospital, Hour by Hour
- Neonatal Opioid Withdrawal and the Eat, Sleep, Console Approach
Sources
- World Health Organization, UNICEF. Protecting, Promoting and Supporting Breastfeeding in Facilities Providing Maternity and Newborn Services: The Revised Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative. Geneva: WHO; 2018.
- Meek JY, Noble L; Section on Breastfeeding. Policy statement: breastfeeding and the use of human milk. Pediatrics. 2022;150(1):e2022057988.
- Feldman-Winter L, Goldsmith JP; Committee on Fetus and Newborn; Task Force on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Safe sleep and skin-to-skin care in the neonatal period for healthy term newborns. Pediatrics. 2016;138(3):e20161889.
- Jaafar SH, Ho JJ, Lee KS. Rooming-in for new mother and infant versus separate care for increasing the duration of breastfeeding. Cochrane Database Syst Rev. 2016;(8):CD006641.
This article is for general education and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice. Always talk with your baby’s health care provider or your own provider about your specific situation. If you think your baby or you may have a medical emergency, call 911.
